“If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat ON you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary… not supplementary. Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies….. You’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.”
You know, girls are often “bitching”, and are often calling each other two faced? Well, after all I think I am normal. I’ve been called those before! And I am sure a lot of girls have been told this before too! And they often deny that are two faced and make the situation big! BUT, I like to agree with them. I mean, Of course I am Two Face! Being single faced is just too boring!!!- no? Actually, I’ll take that back, I am not two faced! My face goes beyond just two!
Seeing me out with my friends is ONE, seeing me work is MANY ONES! Depends what the work is! If it is make up, I put on the Make up face, if it is school, I put on that serious/studious face or at least try to. A new face for each person I come across. lol If I’m at home, I put on that so called “natural” face. LOL. My face change over 10 different faces a day!
Everyone is over two faced! If there is a super bitch costumer of course you still have to act like they are not being bitchy and its YOU who doesn’t understand what they need right?
If I hate someone I would still treat them good. Is that Bad?
"Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer."
First they ignore you. Then they laugh at you. Then they fight you. Then, you win.
I’ve always wanted a perfect ending. Now I’ve learned the hard way that some poems don’t rhyme, and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s to happen next.
Take chances. Tell the truth. Date someone totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash! Fall in love. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say I love you. Sing out loud. Laugh at a stupid joke. Cry. Get revenge. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell the asshole what you feel. Let someone know what they’re missing. Laugh till your stomach hurts.